While Away

[jmsspratlin]

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:

[Big Dad]

Jamie,

I got to ask you this....

I noticed your signature when you posted it....

Do you think that after being there...a part of you will always be left behind...you know, in the place you refer to as hell?

And....

At some point in time in the future -- do you think you'll ever miss being there in a fond type way? Like, when it's the middle of the night and the fam is asleep...after everything is back to the so-called norm?

Whats your thoughts?

Jeff

[H2wifey]

Jamie, you can read your email to see what I have to say about this I have done nothing but be miserable with out you here. I called up to the unit and spoke with someone up there who said he tried to call multiple times and it was busy I don't just sit on the phone he told me it was somting wrong with the connection but it is amazing how when you called from a calling card it went through so it must have been something that he was doing wrong at your work just read your email Thanks Jinsey

[frenzy1]

http://www.trouvestaffing.com/images/support_our_troops.jpg

http://www.fmairsoft.com/images/We_Support_Our_Troops.gif

[jmsspratlin]

Jamie,

I got to ask you this....

I noticed your signature when you posted it....

Do you think that after being there...a part of you will always be left behind...you know, in the place you refer to as hell?

And....

At some point in time in the future -- do you think you'll ever miss being there in a fond type way? Like, when it's the middle of the night and the fam is asleep...after everything is back to the so-called norm?

Whats your thoughts?

Jeff


Funny you ask. I do think part of me will always be here. I have experienced alot in the short time I have been here. Not only via outside experiences, but also personally. I don't think ...at this point, that there is truly a norm for anyone put into a combat situation. Although I'm not a "front liner", I have seen and delt with things that only a like individual would understand.

[jmsspratlin]

Jamie, you can read your email to see what I have to say about this I have done nothing but be miserable with out you here. I called up to the unit and spoke with someone up there who said he tried to call multiple times and it was busy I don't just sit on the phone he told me it was somting wrong with the connection but it is amazing how when you called from a calling card it went through so it must have been something that he was doing wrong at your work just read your email Thanks Jinsey



Thanks

[Hmmm2]

Jamie, I have to tell you that I have total admiration for all of the military guys and gals in Iraq and Afghanistan. That being said ... I think there must be so much pressure on the individual deployed .. just the time to think on the way there, not knowing what to expect .. not knowing what can happen to anyone around you. In the meanwhile, your wife is back in the states. I think the spouse also goes through a sort of denial period knowing that her husband could be in harm's way .. and is away for a number of months. She tries to go about her day .. get through her day .. not wanting to think how many more of those days are ahead of her. Probably going online here is also a way for her to feel a connection to you since you used to post here (and still do) frequently. It's like common ground and a place you both used to come to at the same time. This is not anything close to a comparison by any means, but when my husband takes long business trips, I find myself putting on the 24/7 news radio station that he always listens to, although I dislike it. It sort of makes me feel as if he is here. I know, weird. I think you need to give your wife the benefit of the doubt .. what she is saying could very well be 100% true. You both need to be close emotionally now, not apart. I know someone who has done 3 tours already. He and his wife just have total trust in one another. You have to have trust or all will be lost. Sorry to go on and on here .. just my 2 cents and thoughts, that's all. Stay strong .. and wifey, too. The homecoming will be like one you could never imagine. My thoughts are with you two. You're both great people.

[jmsspratlin]

Jamie, I have to tell you that I have total admiration for all of the military guys and gals in Iraq and Afghanistan. That being said ... I think there must be so much pressure on the individual deployed .. just the time to think on the way there, not knowing what to expect .. not knowing what can happen to anyone around you. In the meanwhile, your wife is back in the states. I think the spouse also goes through a sort of denial period knowing that her husband could be in harm's way .. and is away for a number of months. She tries to go about her day .. get through her day .. not wanting to think how many more of those days are ahead of her. Probably going online here is also a way for her to feel a connection to you since you used to post here (and still do) frequently. It's like common ground and a place you both used to come to at the same time. This is not anything close to a comparison by any means, but when my husband takes long business trips, I find myself putting on the 24/7 news radio station that he always listens to, although I dislike it. It sort of makes me feel as if he is here. I know, weird. I think you need to give your wife the benefit of the doubt .. what she is saying could very well be 100% true. You both need to be close emotionally now, not apart. I know someone who has done 3 tours already. He and his wife just have total trust in one another. You have to have trust or all will be lost. Sorry to go on and on here .. just my 2 cents and thoughts, that's all. Stay strong .. and wifey, too. The homecoming will be like one you could never imagine. My thoughts are with you two. You're both great people.




But don't you think that CO is probably the reason Tower came out of the closet? I guess those Col hillbilly's have nothing better to do than rape their livestock.

[Hmmm2]

Jamie, you're scared now about the relationship because you've been 'burned once' and now you're not home to keep an eye on things. Please don't dwell on things like that now. The relationship obviously got back to where it was and now you .. both of you .. need to be strong and support one another. I can tell you that distrust will eat you up without reason. Jinsey openly states here how much she misses you. I think that wouldn't even be mentioned to everyone here if it wasn't meant. Really. Being burned once is not fun, but everyone is human and mistakes can be made. Then, we have to accept the apology and give the other person the benefit of the doubt, accept the apology and go on with life. Please don't think now that you could never have trust becasue of that one time. I don't know the circumstances, but hopefully both of you can get past it. Keep an open mind and talk with one another .. even if it's by e-mail. Sometimes it's easier to write what is on your mind than to verbalize it. Keeping you guys in my prayers. Stay strong for one another .. Jamie and Jinsey .. you both need to support each other now. Jamie will be home soon and all will be well. Just my thoughts .. not wanting to bud in. :o

[CO Hummer]

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:

You are such a little punk. Why don't you grow the hell up and act like man. You've been gone a total of two weeks and you're whining like a little schoolgirl over absolutely nothing. I'm still LMAO that you're doing it on a public forum. Show your buddies over there what you're doing and they'll probably beat the crap out of you.

[H2wifey]

Jamie, you're scared now about the relationship because you've been 'burned once' and now you're not home to keep an eye on things. Please don't dwell on things like that now. The relationship obviously got back to where it was and now you .. both of you .. need to be strong and support one another. I can tell you that distrust will eat you up without reason. Jinsey openly states here how much she misses you. I think that wouldn't even be mentioned to everyone here if it wasn't meant. Really. Being burned once is not fun, but everyone is human and mistakes can be made. Then, we have to accept the apology and give the other person the benefit of the doubt, accept the apology and go on with life. Please don't think now that you could never have trust becasue of that one time. I don't know the circumstances, but hopefully both of you can get past it. Keep an open mind and talk with one another .. even if it's by e-mail. Sometimes it's easier to write what is on your mind than to verbalize it. Keeping you guys in my prayers. Stay strong for one another .. Jamie and Jinsey .. you both need to support each other now. Jamie will be home soon and all will be well. Just my thoughts .. not wanting to bud in. :o




Thanks I agree totally I'm not even the person who cheated on him, Like you said being on this forum not only helps to pass time and reminds me of Jamie and I do MISS HIM:crying: i just hate it when he calls here and is mad at me thinking I don't want to talk to him I Love to talk to him I just hate the fact that he doesn't trust me

Thanks Jinsey

[CO Hummer]

Has anyone ever seen tower and Jamie in the same place at the same time?

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

I detect some hostility on this thread........

my suggestion to BOTH out you is to air your DIRTY LAUNDRY AWAY from this forum and to

GROW UP !!!

all marriages have/had problems...while in VN it happened to MANY people...the advice we got was

grow up !!!

[jmsspratlin]

Has anyone ever seen tower and Jamie in the same place at the same time?


I don't even know her.

[jmsspratlin]

I detect some hostility on this thread........

my suggestion to BOTH out you is to air your DIRTY LAUNDRY AWAY from this forum and to

GROW UP !!!

all marriages have/had problems...while in VN it happened to MANY people...the advice we got was

grow up !!!



I agree. However, would "growing out" (as in your case) also work

[ChiHummer3]

:popcorn:

[jmsspratlin]

Issue has been resolved. Thanks for playing.

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

I agree. However, would "growing out" (as in your case) also work

YES

http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/image.php?u=6912&dateline=1201549432 (http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/member.php?u=6912)jmsspratlin (http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/member.php?u=6912) http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/images/statusicon/user_online.gif vbmenu_register("postmenu_465954", true);
Hummer Guru
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Kirkuk, Iraq
Posts: 2,481
http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/images/reputation/reputation_pos.gif


http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/images/icons/icon1.gif Re: While Away
Issue has been resolved. Thanks for playing.
__________________
Hell hath no water....only Sand



GOOD !!!

[CO Hummer]

Issue has been resolved. Thanks for playing.

Well goodie, goodie. We are so glad a Hummer forum could solve your marital problems.

It's always nice to have young control freaks budding in our midst. I give you less than 5 years until you start beating her.

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

[quote=CO Hummer]Well goodie, goodie. We are so glad a Hummer forum could solve your marital problems.

It's always nice to have young control freaks budding in our midst. I give you less than 5 years until you start beating her




http://www.fotosearch.com/images/spacer.gifhttp://www.fotosearch.com/comp/SBY/SBY309/portrait-of-a-young-woman-with-a-black-eye-~-57307005.jpg

[CO Hummer]

In all reality, she probably deserves a good beating. I mean, what guy should put up with his woman talking about something that he hasn't been pre-briefed on?

I can say that I'd probably whoop the crap out of my wife if I found out that she talked about a stray dog in our yard and I hadn't heard about it in our phone conversation. Now that I think about it, I might even beat her just so it never happens in the future.

[Hmmm2]

I dunno CO Hummer, I think it's time for everyone to calm down and have some small consumables. :giggling:

[BKLYNH2]

Way Too Much Information! :iagree:

[CO Hummer]

I dunno CO Hummer, I think it's time for everyone to calm down and have some small consumables. :giggling:

Someone needs to beat you too. :jump:

[BKLYNH2]

Someone needs to beat you too. :jump:
Damn, that whiskey really didn't sit well with you did it? :orly:

Leave my lesbians alone sissyboy! Go back to your sewing machine. :raar:

[CO Hummer]

Damn, that whiskey really didn't sit well with you did it? :orly:

Leave my lesbians alone sissyboy! Go back to your sewing machine. :raar:

I feel so left out, so alone, when you talk to me like this. I make a concerted effort to post here and then you treat me like this? I guess I'll start feeling the same way about you.

[BKLYNH2]

Tell me how you really feel. :giggling:

Better yet why not just tell it to the whole damn world right here. :giggling: :giggling:

[CO Hummer]

Tell me how you really feel. :giggling:

Better yet why not just tell it to the whole damn world right here. :giggling: :giggling:

Well what else am I supposed to do? You'll hardly talk to me on the phone. You never told me the Sharks lost to Avs yet you'll talk about it here? WTH!

[DennisAJC]

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:





Holy insecurity Batman!!! Not something you should be even exposing to the group thar Jamie. Hands down you're having a tough time adjusting but to lay it on thick when you guys are worlds apart doesn't make things any better. Your wifey is probably dealing with it in her own way.

These kind of long distance correspondence where guilt trips and threats of cleaning house when you return just doesn't work out man. You'll find it will only make things worst and as months progress, it will eat you inside and affect your job.

Love, support and understanding. Insecurity only breaks you further apart.

I've watched enough Jerry Springer to know that I am right on this.

[DRTYFN]

:giggling: :giggling: :giggling:

[Mr. I - Man]

Holy insecurity Batman!!! Not something you should be even exposing to the group thar Jamie. Hands down you're having a tough time adjusting but to lay it on thick when you guys are worlds apart doesn't make things any better. Your wifey is probably dealing with it in her own way.

These kind of long distance correspondence where guilt trips and threats of cleaning house when you return just doesn't work out man. You'll find it will only make things worst and as months progress, it will eat you inside and affect your job.

Love, support and understanding. Insecurity only breaks you further apart.

I've watched enough Jerry Springer to know that I am right on this.

This is why I didn't get married until after I was out of the Corps!

BTW women are like cars if they sit too long without being turned over or on they are bound to give you problems and cold engine makes for a cold home coming. All she needs is a special girlfriend to distract her from missing you and to crank her over and turn her on every once in a while.

Sorry if this sounds harsh but reality sucks.

[Big Dad]

pre-briefed

Dam straight! Man Law!

[H2Blondie]

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:
Jamie, talk like this is not going to help your situation one bit! If anything, she will grow to resent you for these jealous feelings you put into public posts. I'm not saying that she's living like an angel while you're away because I don't know either one of you, but for you to make implications otherwise without first-hand knowledge is only going to make things worse. Give her the benefit of the doubt; if you can't trust her, you shouldn't have married her in the first place!

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

Yon notice Wifey hasn't posted since early...She knows she's wrong and is being a "GOOD HUMBLE WIFE" AGAIN...

cause

she knows what will happen if she acts up again...

Jamie, don't you worry, she will be "WELL TRAINED" by the time you get back...

ALL YOUR FRIENDS HERE will see to it...

[CO Hummer]

Jamie, talk like this is not going to help your situation one bit! If anything, she will grow to resent you for these jealous feelings you put into public posts. I'm not saying that she's living like an angel while you're away because I don't know either one of you, but for you to make implications otherwise without first-hand knowledge is only going to make things worse. Give her the benefit of the doubt; if you can't trust her, you shouldn't have married her in the first place!

Well what did you do when Tower was out the in the mountains with the National Ski Patrol hunting down lost skiers for weeks at a time. :jump:

[H2Blondie]

Right..."well trained" to think on her own!:D

[H2Blondie]

Well what did you do when Tower was out the in the mountains with the National Ski Patrol hunting down lost skiers for weeks at a time. :jump:
I'll never tell!!!

[CO Hummer]

I'll never tell!!!

I'll bet that if he found out you ate some cheescake while he was away you'd have been in big, big trouble.

[BKLYNH2]

I'll bet that if he found out you ate some cheescake while he was away you'd have been in big, big trouble.

You see, I don't talk to you on the phone anymore because your always fantasizing about Fat Boy Slim! I want to feel important again. :drama:

[CO Hummer]

:drama:

Oh, so now you using icons that we've never talked about? You bitch.

[BKLYNH2]

Oh, so now you using icons that we've never talked about? You bitch.



which pales in comparison to you posting pics of elcovian poo that I have never seen before! :twak:

[bparker]

J, I think you have way too much time on your hands right now to think of way too many negative possibilities. Try to spend this time on how you want to spend your future and make positive changes once you are done.

Dont let this situation get the best of you, stay strong and stay realistic about everything. It will all work out and be just fine. You will see.

You have a lot of time to think and reflect, dont forget to reflect on the good things. People miss you and admire you for what you are doing. Dont forget this.

I wish you the best and please come home safely. :beerchug:

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:

[Hmmm2]

Yon notice Wifey hasn't posted since early...She knows she's wrong and is being a "GOOD HUMBLE WIFE" AGAIN...

cause

she knows what will happen if she acts up again...

Jamie, don't you worry, she will be "WELL TRAINED" by the time you get back...

ALL YOUR FRIENDS HERE will see to it...

WHAT?!?!?!?!?! You've got to be kidding!! Uhhh, that's not the way it works, RYD. Where are those Coneheads when we need them ....

[Big Dad]

War is hell....

[KenP]

Be safe, Jamie.

[Marcmedic]

In all reality, she probably deserves a good beating. I mean, what guy should put up with his woman talking about something that he hasn't been pre-briefed on?

I can say that I'd probably whoop the crap out of my wife if I found out that she talked about a stray dog in our yard and I hadn't heard about it in our phone conversation. Now that I think about it, I might even beat her just so it never happens in the future.

Better yet, threaten to stop dying her hair for her. Make her go to a salon...that'll really teach her not to step outta line. On the other hand...a preemptive pimp slap works wonders. Sometimes I think Ike Turner was a man that nobody understood till it was too late. :jump: :jump:

[CO Hummer]

which pales in comparison to you posting pics of elcovian poo that I have never seen before! :twak:

You must understand that these treasures are only to be released in stages. This could take over a decade.

[BKLYNH2]

You must understand that these treasures are only to be released in stages. This could take over a decade.
I'm in no hurry, the drama excites me! :dancingbanana:

[Aich Tew]

http://imdb.com/title/tt0418763/

[CO Hummer]

You mean.....?

http://imdb.com/title/tt0106598/

[Aich Tew]

You mean.....?

http://imdb.com/title/tt0106598/


Well, that's pretty funny, but this is funnier! ;)


http://www.wowomg.com/trickpics/3.jpg (http://www.wowomg.com)

[Karsun]

I don't know either of you but since you brought it public.... Jamie, I'm sure she misses you horribly. And I bet you just got all upset and vented without thinking. Be nice to each other and trust each other. It's hard on both of you but fighting isn't going to help one bit. Be safe and love each other. With that said, y'all quit talking about wife beating or I'll have to get out my Tracy Thurman movie and get all turned on. :giggling:

[CO Hummer]

With that said, y'all quit talking about wife beating or I'll have to get out my Tracy Thurman movie and get all turned on. :giggling:

Sounds like you need a good whoopin'.

[Dan Rather]

Wow!!! Is all this drama coming from that fellow with the really big head?

[BKLYNH2]

Sounds like you need a good whoopin'.
By the way. How does all this Ike Turner machismo come from Mr. I'm an oxygen channel watching sissy boy???? :shhh:

[Geraldo]

Wow!!! Is all this drama coming from that fellow with the really big head?Shut it Dan, this is my story. I've been e-tracking these two since they first joined and i don't want you to mess things up for me.

[Hummermebaby]

I can not tell who is the woman here. You are such a whining, crying, litlle control freak. Someone should take your punk ass out behind the tents and kick the ever loving **** out of you. MUST BE AN OFFICER!!!!

Hate to tell you bud but "war is hell on the homefront too" you might better listen to that song. Someone may just move in a treat her like a lady instead of piece of property.:violin:

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

I can not tell who is the woman here. You are such a whining, crying, litlle control freak. Someone should take your punk ass out behind the tents and kick the ever loving **** out of you. MUST BE AN OFFICER!!!!

Hate to tell you bud but "war is hell on the homefront too" you might better listen to that song. Someone may just move in a treat her like a lady instead of piece of property.:violin:

which assius, i mean alias are you !!!!!!!!!!

[CO Hummer]

Hmmm. All is quiet from J & J. I wonder which forum they moved their domestic to. :giggling:

[Big Dad]

Hmmm. All is quiet from J & J. I wonder which forum they moved their domestic to. :giggling:

Hahahaha! I think he went to the "He-man woman haters club!"



.

[BKLYNH2]

Hmmm. All is quiet from J & J. I wonder which forum they moved their domestic to. :giggling:

Probably the FJ forum. They're a bunch of drama pu$$ies! :giggling:

[jmsspratlin]

I can not tell who is the woman here. You are such a whining, crying, litlle control freak. Someone should take your punk ass out behind the tents and kick the ever loving **** out of you. MUST BE AN OFFICER!!!!

Hate to tell you bud but "war is hell on the homefront too" you might better listen to that song. Someone may just move in a treat her like a lady instead of piece of property.:violin:


I'm game for someone to post up an ass whooping. War is hell on the home front hey? Do you mean while you lay your fat A$$ on the couch shoveling ding-dongs down your mouth and point and yell at the TV when CNN says another solider has died. Give me a break. As for moving in and treating her like a lady, feel free....Just leave me my Hummer. Messing with that thing will bring you hell-fire fast:raar: .

[Marcmedic]

http://www.evitamins.com/images/products/chillpillFUT.gif

[DR EVIL]

I'm game for someone to post up an ass whooping. War is hell on the home front hey? Do you mean while you lay your fat A$$ on the couch shoveling ding-dongs down your mouth and point and yell at the TV when CNN says another solider has died. Give me a break. As for moving in and treating her like a lady, feel free....Just leave me my Hummer. Messing with that thing will bring you hell-fire fast:raar: .

Aww. You think you've got it bad over their, Beldar? Do you have any idea how bad the economy is getting over here? Have you seen the DJI, or S&P. :drama:

I think you should ask for a pysch discharge today, mister!

Be safe though, this forum needs people like you. :D

[Big Dad]

As for moving in and treating her like a lady, feel free....Just leave me my Hummer. Messing with that thing will bring you hell-fire fast.

You can't be serious about caring more for your H2 than your lady?

[Hummermebaby]

See you wuss, only worried about a car... you act like you are intimidated because your pansy ass is in Iraq yet you challenge me on your POS GM product... you are nothing more than a head strong, over bearing, control freak. Find a phone idiot and call home with the respect she deserves and stop the mind games. And by the way I have deployed more than you ever will and your pussy ass remf excuses for not finding a phone make me wanna puke.

[Hummermebaby]

Sorry I know this is a hummer forum and I meant nothing by saying it was a POS GM product except to show NURSE SPRATLING that he is being an idiot.

Reguards.

[RuggedH2]

I'm game for someone to post up an ass whooping. War is hell on the home front hey? Do you mean while you lay your fat A$$ on the couch shoveling ding-dongs down your mouth and point and yell at the TV when CNN says another solider has died. Give me a break. As for moving in and treating her like a lady, feel free....Just leave me my Hummer. Messing with that thing will bring you hell-fire fast:raar: .

Jamie,

You are not the first Serviceman to be deployed.......that posts on this forum. I know how it feels myself. You do sound like you have the market cornered on self pity and immaturity though.

Stop feeling so sorry for yourself, and blaming your wife and everyone else including this place for your situation. You are embarrassing yourself and the US Air Force Nurse Corps, and the US Military in general. You are a Commissioned Officer for crying out loud, start acting like it.

Are all the people that have wished you "good Luck" here.....the same ones you were referring to above?

If you can't see that you are making a gigantic fool out of yourself, and displaying your insecurity and lack of confidence for all to see........then you're weaker mentally than I even thought you were.

There are many over there that have it worse than you.......being in the medical field yourself......you shouldn't have to look to hard to find them. Kill the pity party you're holding for yourself and get to work helping those hurt kids that work the forward areas.

Quit bitchin about your life back here, and go do what you were sent to do over there!

SOLDIER UP Spratlin!

[Hummermebaby]

Thank you sir for your words of wisdom... I only hope the control freak can hear you. And for the record I am not a nurse so shoving pastries down my throat is not even in question. I am actually a fighter of this war not a remf. I refuse to feel sorry for myself unlike MR. cry baby. What is more, I dont abuse nor berate my wife. Stop acting like you are 10 years old again. Family advocacy is no fun.

[jmsspratlin]

You can't be serious about caring more for your H2 than your lady?

No I'm not serious, but I knew a few a$$ clowns would chime in and say something. It's funny how many Dr. Phils are on this site. Seems like some of these hang on every word and every post. Keep the crap coming, and I'll do my part on my end.

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

:popcorn:

[DRTYFN]

No I'm not serious, but I knew a few a$$ clowns would chime in and say something. It's funny how many Dr. Phils are on this site. Seems like some of these hang on every word and every post. Keep the crap coming, and I'll do my part on my end.
46589

[CO Hummer]

No I'm not serious, but I knew a few a$$ clowns would chime in and say something. It's funny how many Dr. Phils are on this site. Seems like some of these hang on every word and every post. Keep the crap coming, and I'll do my part on my end.

Nice try buddy. But the "I was just kidding" thing usually stops around the age of 12.

Unfortunately, you can't take back what you've done. You can suck it up and admit what you are. Or, you can get never-ending crap from us until he end of time. :OWNED:

[DR EVIL]

:OWNED:

[Hmmm2]

I'd really like to see Jamie and Jinsey handle this PERSONAL and PRIVATE marital problem on their own, by phone, through e-mail, or with the help of family or counselors. Initially, I think most were shocked that this had come up on the forum, but it is more serious than that and should be handled by the two having the problem. Jamie, you need to find a way to talk or work this out with your wife in a private setting. People who use parts of this forum for 'entertainment' reasons will only antagonize you and make things worse. For example, who in the world is "Hummermebaby"? Obviously it's someone you or your wife knows. That person spews anger and hatred, whoever he/she is. I think most of us would love to have you back on the forum for what you had contributed in the past regarding your experience and thoughts on the Hummer, or, lighthearted joking. You must see so much heartbreak where you are now ... don't compound it for yourself with domestic issues. Get back here safely and get into a more positive mindset. Life will get back to more normalcy once you do.

[RuggedH2]

OMG the touchy feely BS. :rolleyes:

We fight like we train!

Not a re-post, it's back by popular demand! (Doctor Phil my ass)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYVBlXGuVYg

[Hmmm2]

OMG the touchy feely BS. :rolleyes:

We fight like we train!

Not a re-post, it's back by popular demand! (Doctor Phil my ass)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYVBlXGuVYg

I can appreciate what you are saying, Rugged. I 'had' a brother in the Marine Corp. Mine is from a woman's point of view with a little psych background. Though, Dr. Phil, I'm not. He's a guy, I'm not. ;)

[DennisAJC]

I just hope Jamie doesn't take it out on his patients.

[CO Hummer]

People who use parts of this forum for 'entertainment' reasons will only antagonize you and make things worse.

We would never let this happen at Elcova.

[DennisAJC]

We would never let this happen at Elcova.

"At Elcova, we not only protect our young...

...We also eat them."

[Hmmm2]

"At Elcova, we not only protect our young...

...We also eat them."

I thought so!!!! :p

[Agriv8r]

WHAT A BUNCHA CRAP....if this is a true post and not just attention seeking, 2 weeks and you are already like this......wait a few more months and hope to hell the phones and email and real mail dont get interupted....if this is just for fun, WHAT A BUNCHA CRAP.....

[Marcmedic]

If it's just a joke, then why hasn't the wife posted since you started this???
:lame:

[DRTYFN]

If it's just a joke, then why hasn't the wife posted since you started this???
:lame:
She's been "busy".46623

[bparker]

:giggling:

[DennisAJC]

She's been "busy".http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=46623&d=1203227237
This can only end in disaster.

[CO Hummer]

This can only end in disaster.

Let's hope so.

[bparker]

:clapping::giggling::excited:Let's hope so.

[Big Dad]

She's been "busy".46623

AHHHHHHHHHH!

:giggling: :giggling: :giggling: :giggling:

[RuggedH2]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_1-Bb_KaDQ

[DRTYFN]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_1-Bb_KaDQ
Is this because it's black history month?:jump:

[06-H3]

This can only end in disaster.

Or a bukake party. :jump: :grouphug:

[RuggedH2]

Is this because it's black history month?:jump:
What.......

Don't you think Jamie has the ability to reach down and find a professional soldier inside of himself......

You know a dedicated, courageous, committed, honorable, professional, capable of caring more for his fellow servicemen than himself.......

Yeah.....I had that figured out less than a week after he got here.

Thinks he's tough when he is in the least demanding possible military situation, but when the Air Force requires a real return on their investment.......falls apart mentally.

[TXSUT]

If it's just a joke, then why hasn't the wife posted since you started this???


The only part he was saying was a joke was the part about favoring his H2 over his wife. He was trying to back out of that one like he tried backing out of saying he likes to get tea-bagged.
:jump:

Jamie, it's so damn funny that you brought up Dr. Phil, when it's guys like you, and this crap you've spewed, who have made him so successful. :giggling:

[TXSUT]

Jamie,

You are not the first Serviceman to be deployed.......that posts on this forum. I know how it feels myself. You do sound like you have the market cornered on self pity and immaturity though.

Stop feeling so sorry for yourself, and blaming your wife and everyone else including this place for your situation. You are embarrassing yourself and the US Air Force Nurse Corps, and the US Military in general. You are a Commissioned Officer for crying out loud, start acting like it.

Are all the people that have wished you "good Luck" here.....the same ones you were referring to above?

If you can't see that you are making a gigantic fool out of yourself, and displaying your insecurity and lack of confidence for all to see........then you're weaker mentally than I even thought you were.

There are many over there that have it worse than you.......being in the medical field yourself......you shouldn't have to look to hard to find them. Kill the pity party you're holding for yourself and get to work helping those hurt kids that work the forward areas.

Quit bitchin about your life back here, and go do what you were sent to do over there!

SOLDIER UP Spratlin!

Post of the Year right there.

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

:popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:

[Hummermebaby]

I just want to say that I dont know either of these two, I happened upon this site by the suggestion of a friend. I was totally disgusted with the mental abuse being projected by a so called officer in the USAF. Not to mention someone in the medical corps who is supposed to be helping those injured and/or abused. It makes me question true motives of this type A personality.

I hope that either he wakes up and sees that he is an abuser based on these posts or she will recognize what is happening here. I know the latter is probably out of the question since she seems so co-dependant.

That being said I will disreguard this idiocy and concentrate on some good ole hummer fun from here on out.

Yours,
Baby

[Marcmedic]

I see she's still not allowed to post....:notallthere:

[Hmmm2]

I see she's still not allowed to post....:notallthere:

I was thinking the same thing .....

[RubHer Yellow Ducky]

I see she's still not allowed to post....:notallthere:

:popcorn:

[DennisAJC]

Let's just ban them both.:shhh:

[wpage]

Our thoughts and prayers are with you mighty warrior. Please do your duty and come home safe to your family and friends:beerchug:

[H2wifey]

Jeez this thread is never gonna disappear is it.

[DennisAJC]

Jeez this thread is never gonna disappear is it.


So what are you trying to say Jinsey? Are you blaming us for this? Just remember it was Jamie and his insecurity that started this thread and exposed your relationship out in public.

[KenP]

Jeez this thread is never gonna disappear is it.Ignore it and it will die a slow death. Until someone revives it again...

[Marcmedic]

If I keep having slow days like this at work it'll never die!!! :fdance:

[Hummermebaby]

Wow; I hope he gave you permission to reply again so he doesn't have an excuse to beat your tail when he gets home! Then again maybe you can sic the bear on him!!:OWNED:

[Big Dad]

Ignore it and it will die a slow death. Until someone revives it again...

Per your signature:

I believe the dynamics behind diaper changing are directly related to the proportion of food the infant ingests. I also believe an algebraic equation I had on a test, proved that reducing the meals per day ratio also reduced the dirty diaper per year ratio. Furthermore, reducing the little fellas meals will most likely cause his food source to, rather painfully, swell up.

:giggling:

[Hummermebaby]

Vote for Monica Lewinsky's Ex-boyfriends wife for president 2008!!!!

[KenP]

Per your signature:

I believe the dynamics behind diaper changing are directly related to the proportion of food the infant ingests. I also believe an algebraic equation I had on a test, proved that reducing the meals per day ratio also reduced the dirty diaper per year ratio.Unless you have a wife that's paranoid about the baby becoming uncomfortable in a dirty diaper, thus causing her to change diapers way the freaking heck too often.:rant:

[Field Scout]

Ken, tell CP to read the package on the diapers they tell you how much they'll hold like up to 10 lbs, ya'll are just wasting your money not letting them fill up:p :giggling:

[06-H3]

http://www.shoutwire.com/m4/100132/fg.jpg

[KenP]

Ken, tell CP to read the package on the diapers they tell you how much they'll hold like up to 10 lbs, ya'll are just wasting your money not letting them fill up:p :giggling:I'm with ya, man.:clapping:

[Adam in CO]

If memory serves, it was 5 or 6 a day. Multiply that times the 365 days in a year and you get 2200 at the most. It is a leap year, though.

I think AJ wore diapers for exactly 3 years, so it was only about 5500 total. I think I changed 50 of them. My wife is a saint.

[CO Hummer]

He doesn't even change his own underwear daily. How can one expect him change the kids diaper.

[KenP]

I think AJ wore diapers for exactly 3 years, so it was only about 5500 total. I think I changed 50 of them. My wife is a saint.My wife's pissed. Somehow I've been missing out on all the stinky ones. Plus she's been peed on a heck of a lot more than I have.:giggling:

[Adam in CO]

My wife's pissed. Somehow I've been missing out on all the stinky ones. Plus she's been peed on a heck of a lot more than I have.:giggling:

Gotta watch out for the pee, no question.

[SnakeH2]

Old Faithful:p

[Hmmm2]

Ken, tell CP to read the package on the diapers they tell you how much they'll hold like up to 10 lbs, ya'll are just wasting your money not letting them fill up:p :giggling:

Ooooo-weeee, that makes for one ripey dipey! :p

[Hummermebaby]

:fdance:

[SnakeH2]

:drama:

[Marcmedic]

:iagree:

[Big Dad]

I still don't get the shirt comment....

But this thread reminds me that the current wife actually did about a year total over there in sand land while we were dating. I'm just glad she didn't get all up in my a$$ for the things I did back home...but then again we were just dating at the time.

Hell, when I was deployed the first wife couldn't get a hold of me. That was for the duration of...during Shield and Storm...I wonder what she might have said if she could have? Actually, now that I think about it I'm glad she couldn't!

:popcorn:

[Hmmm2]

:popcorn:

[SnakeH2]

:fdance:

[Marcmedic]

Nice job staying on top of this!!! :clapping:

[jmsspratlin]

I agree. Hell, this thread alone has more hits than tower's fetish with snow skiers thread. I do appreciate the attention. I feel the love...really...I mean it....from the bottom of my sac I do. Thanks....J

[Gay Alan]

So you know, life is easier when you're gay.

It makes it easier to understand your partner.

[Agriv8r]

So you know, life is easier when you're gay.

It makes it easier to understand your partner.

what a queer look at relationships....

[Big Dad]

I agree. Hell, this thread alone has more hits than tower's fetish with snow skiers thread. I do appreciate the attention. I feel the love...really...I mean it....from the bottom of my sac I do. Thanks....J

I think you're just saying that cause its been a while since you been T-bagged!

But look at it this way...you're half-way there!

[BigPoppa1411]

The bottom of your sac??? That must be because your centimeter peter can't be found. You have the classic signs, Hummer, Obnoxious attitude towards women, Control freak, oh and you are a big crying PUSS!:lame:

:popcorn:

[Hmmm2]

:popcorn: :drama: :popcorn:

[jmsspratlin]

:popcorn:
:violin:

[jmsspratlin]

I think you're just saying that cause its been a while since you been T-bagged!

But look at it this way...you're half-way there!
yep:excited:

[KenP]

Glad to see you're safe.:clapping:

[Hmmm2]

Glad to see you're safe.:clapping:

:iagree: Won't be too much longer. :)

[jmsspratlin]

BUt as the weather warms...things are getting worse...very busy

[Big Dad]

You are so lucky I don't live in FL. I'd of had one of these made and snuck on-base, put it on your 2 and snapped a picture. Of course I'd let you drive that way also!



.

[Karsun]

Here ya go!http://pic20.picturetrail.com/VOL1413/6099623/12088901/310218584.jpg

[Big Dad]

Can you get on base?

:popcorn:

[CO Hummer]

Did Jamie make a formally make an "Sorry, I am an a-hole" post yet?

[SnakeH2]

Did Jamie make a formally make an "Sorry, I am an a-hole" post yet?

Isn't this that post??



Oh, I guess he didn't do the sorry part.
:lame:

[jmsspratlin]

Did Jamie make a formally make an "Sorry, I am an a-hole" post yet?


Why would I need to post it up too you all in first place. This issue was settled long ago. Why should I be sorry to you guys? The person I was trying to get through to at the time, got the message, problem solved, moved on, unlike this post. Yeah guess I should have PMed her, but I wasn't sure she even knew how to check the inbox. So in essence, if I'm an a-hole, so be it, I'm not really into the internet popularity contest.:notallthere:

[jmsspratlin]

Can you get on base?

:popcorn:



What?

[DRTYFN]

Why would I need to post it up too you all in first place. This issue was settled long ago. Why should I be sorry to you guys? The person I was trying to get through to at the time, got the message, problem solved, moved on, unlike this post. Yeah guess I should have PMed her, but I wasn't sure she even knew how to check the inbox. So in essence, if I'm an a-hole, so be it, I'm not really into the internet popularity contest.:notallthere:
So now you're back-pedaling and calling your wife too dumb to know anything about checking her PMs? Wow... you're a winner.:rolleyes:

[CO Hummer]

I'm an a-hole, so be it, I'm not really into the internet popularity contest.:notallthere:

Ummm, you are.

And it's a good thing you're not in the contest because you're only a half-step ahead of Tower.

Not to mention the fact that you're pretty much a dumbass for thinking I want you to apologize to us. LMAO. I figured if you were lame enough to call your wife out on an internet forum then you would at least publicly apologize to HER when you realized what an ass you'd been.

[jmsspratlin]

Ummm, you are.

And it's a good thing you're not in the contest because you're only a half-step ahead of Tower.

Not to mention the fact that you're pretty much a dumbass for thinking I want you to apologize to us. LMAO. I figured if you were lame enough to call your wife out on an internet forum then you would at least publicly apologize to HER when you realized what an ass you'd been.


Thanks Dr Phil. And as far as being a half step above Tower, then how many does that make me above you...100+?

[jmsspratlin]

So now you're back-pedaling and calling your wife too dumb to know anything about checking her PMs? Wow... you're a winner.:rolleyes:


Grow up :fdance:

[Big Dad]

What?

well read back before my reply of "what" and you'll see the joke...

[Marcmedic]

I guess somebody is off his meds...again...:notallthere:

[jmsspratlin]

I guess somebody is off his meds...again...:notallthere:

If you are referring to me, yeah, I quit taking the "give a damn" pill a while back.

[Andy C]

My Iphone doesn't work in Japan.........bastards.

[Big Dad]

Ahh, who cares, you can always go have a couple of ice cold Kirin's and a big bowl of Chicken Yakisoba, just don't forget the Sriracha hot sauce!

:D

And if you make it to Thailand...lucky for you that phone won't work in the fishbowl either!

;)

[DRTYFN]

Grow up :fdance:
:fdance:

[SnakeH2]

:iagree:

[Agriv8r]

thats just wrong...

[Big Dad]

Dayum! Resurected again....

[BKLYNH2]

Like one of those turds that won't flush. :raar:

[Marcmedic]

Well, if its a huge turd, it can't be flushed.

[Big Dad]

Like one of those turds that won't flush. :raar:

:perfect10s: :iagree: :perfect10s:

[SnakeH2]

Dayum! Resurected again....

:iagree:

[SnakeH2]

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:


:drama:

[Marcmedic]

:drama:
:iagree:

[Big Dad]

I bet this ends just like any other drama...some big Pussy gets laid.

:notallthere:

[DennisAJC]

Since I have left, not only the trip of a lifetime, but, I have come to realize that it seems that through a person'e voice, you can tell when it is not quite as exciting for the other person to talk to you. I have been away going on 2 weeks and this is now the norm. Even in the remote times I have the opportunity to call, the line is either busy (around 10 or 11PM in the states) or no answer. Also, just in the last few, I have scanned the site, only to find out through here about a bear. You'd think that this would make for atleast a mention during conversation, rather than the fact that "I visited my grandparents church today". Although it is said that the other one misses the other, I am now finding that maybe I am wrong for even trying so hard to even contact home (i.e. waiting hours to make a 10-15 phone call) I guess it is def true....absence makes the heart grow fonder for some, while out of site out of mind for the most. I guess I need to adopt the latter of the 2. Being that she does seem to check this site more than her email, I hope she reads this and realizes that I am about through going that extra step just to contact her. At this point contacting other family members is more important. I will def make some changes in my family, once I return home. :soapbox:


I use to put paperback novels in my pants before my dad belted me. It works sometimes. Jamie sounds like a monster.:clapping:

[DRTYFN]

I use to put paperback novels in my pants before my dad belted me. It works sometimes. Jamie sounds like a monster.:clapping:
I heard he can levitate stuff and light fires with his mind. :jump:

[CO Hummer]

I heard he can levitate stuff and light fires with his mind. :jump:

hahahaha!

I can see him using that forehead like a club on his wife.

[DennisAJC]

I heard he can levitate stuff and light fires with his mind. :jump:

FIRESTARTER!!! :jump:

[SnakeH2]

hahahaha!

I can see him using that forehead like a club on his wife.

Holy crap Batman!!! Is that a chop? That's major conehead action! He could rent that space out!!!!!

[Sewie]

He could rent that space out!!!!!

It seems there's already several forum members living there rent free.

[Big Dad]

Holy crap Batman!!! Is that a chop? That's major conehead action! He could rent that space out!!!!!

Hahahahaha!

Like a sandwich board, "Wife Beater Beefy Tee's 2 fer 1 sale!"