Dear HummerChic,
I would like to ask a personal favor. I value your posts and your input on this site. I, for one, would not want to suppress your input. Consequently, I am having a really hard time dealing with your signature, "Ok... I'll shut up!

" I have no idea who in your life has been telling you need to shut up, but to my knowledge, no one on this site has. Furthermore, when you close with that signature and then continue to post, for me, it calls your credibility into question.
I realize this is a request that I have no right to make of you and it pertains to my issues, not yours. Still, if it isn't too much to request, please at least consider it. Thank you.
Be well,