W1N,
Have you considered contacting some of the companies doing this end-to-end auto export?
http://www.globalcarpoint.com/
http://www.autoexportusa.com
I never use them and really don;t know anything about them, but these 2 appear to have affiliates in Finland.
I honestly don't beleive a regular US franchised dealer is the way to go unless you intend to be state-side to purchase the vehicle first, these dealerships have too much at risk in shipping a new unregistered vehicle.
May be you can also use a buying service where they can get the vehicle for you, and possibly arrange for export.
BTW, still haven;t heard back from my dealer, so I won't hold my breath...