believe it or not but the best deal i have found for rims and tires combos(they come shipped mounted and balanced....just slap em on) is
http://www.wheelsandspinners.com
I oringally was looking at 20x10 Kaotik nt-1 with 325/60-20 BFG a/t for approximately $2,700 plus shipping($200 to my area).
Sorry, but i wont be of much help with Accessories. BTW, love you avatar...i need to figure out how to make one of those...heres my 8month old bulldog:
