I think you will be happy with the H3. Now I have not actually gotten to see one in person myself, but I think you will like it. I ordered site unseen. You say the H2 would be too big for you, but you were driving a suburban. Never compared the two, but is the H2 really that much, if any, bigger? You also mentioned you didn't like the fact that it only has a 23 gallon tank. You really won't notice it is so much smaller than you are used to because the gas mileage will be so much better. Don't think you will miss that large of a take when you are at the pump filling up. As far as the DVD/Nav radio goes, it is not available at this time and as far as I know it only reads data DVDs and will not play movies. If I am wrong, someone will let us know. If you are looking for a DVD system you would be better off shopping around for aftermarket systems rather than going through the dealer. Check the link below for available accessories for the H3. This was provided by HoKC and you can find him in these forums if you have questions. As far as what to get to effect the resale, whatever you add will help but I would think that LUX and Off Road Suspension packages would help the most.
http://www.cybergarage.net/H3/H3_Part_Number.pdf
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