RMST, don't go for the get a sack stuff. Ask your wife for input on color, accessories etc. It needs to be her decision to buy it, not yours. Pick a color you know she hates and you hate too then ask for her opinion. She will say something like "I like the pewter". At this point say "Oh really, why". She will explain at which time you say "you know, you're really good at this, I'm thinking about leaving the noisy, smokey, gas guzzling exhaust on it, what do you think?" She will respond "Oh no, we should probably get the corsa exhaust at which time you say "gosh, great idea, I didn't think of that.
You see how it goes, good luck.
