[PARAGON]

Originally Posted by nychot

gotta tell you i probably got 30 emails from members of this forum attacking all of you for making this an often nasty place. but they are afraid of posting publicly. just to let you know you are despised by many here.

*FEELING VICTIMIZED - The p/a man protests that others unfairly accuse him rather than owning up to his own misdeeds. To remain above reporach, he sets himself up as the apparently hapless, innocent victim of your excessive demands and tirades.


*MAKING EXCUSES & LYING - The p/a man reaches as far as he can to fabricate excuses for not fulfilling promises. As a way of withholding information, affirmation or love - to have power over you - the p/a man may choose to make up a story rather than give you a straight answer.