Hmmmm, I side with Ken on this one: Morality requires us to consider others for their own sake and not because they may benefit us. There seems to be something wrong with aiming to behave compassionately, kindly, and honestly because this will make me happier.
KenP disagrees wholeheartedly. 
- In other words, don't go around bein a 'do gooder' and puttin up a front just cause it makes you feel good. - And besides that, Ken offered 3 kind, compassionate and helpful words prior to my honeymoon in Italy. They were: Get Married First. - He B rite! I now completely understand and appreciate his words of wisdom.