I hear ya and I totaly respect it - but remember its you that gets to make the choice.
And you are saying you dont mind that a man dreams about bending you over and ramming you eh? Me? hell no I am not down with it. And if I know I am in there with a gay guy he will get yanked and made to wait outside till I am done.
In my days playing ball a gay man (if went public) would have never made it.... we had our ways of getting rid of the weak and weary.
On a pro level its totally different - you are there to do a job and thats it. But you cant get in your clothes and or your car without taking a shower after a game if you would think "I will just skip the shower until I get home". There is so much therapy that goes on and un taping and dealing with turf burns, pulls, strains, injuries and whirl pools, massaging that you are pretty much naked 75% of the time you are in there after a game. Or just in a towel.
Until you are in that situation i guess you would know what I mean. And I dam sure know no one would have the balls to come out while in college! Thats for dam sure. Him coming out now in the pro arena gives him a chance to put a wedge in the public eye where as "we must accept it".
The worst part of it for me is that if we as a society accept this now - the schools will follow and gay boys dont need to be getting thier jollies on other boys in school. Young men are too young and out of control hormone wise that they can barely keep thier diks in thier pants as it is with the girls - now throw a horny lil fag in there and lets see how you like the idea of a fag rubbin one out thinking and watching your son naked every day in gym.
Its not a nice thought and no one is arguing for any common sense or morality here. Only about how we need to accept gays.. what about us straight people? and our kids?
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Originally Posted by DennisAJC
I'd be blushing. 
I don't see anything wrong with it just as long as there is no physical attempt or blatant cock gazing.
My sons and I enjoy bathhouses in Japan and we walk around the resort as God created us. Kinda neat flopping around freely strutting around like John Travolta. I'm always aware that there are perverts and homosessuals, but just as long as they keep to themselves, I won't be pullin any cords from their sockets.  |