If your getting bounce- then your shocks are junk. If they are new then they are to small to dampen/resist the movement. Your going to run through components 4x the rate of stock w/ those monster wheels.
You still have your stock wheels/tires or access to someone that can loan you a set? If so I'd put the stockers on and back the t-bars way off, take it out for a spin see how it handles. I've not heard one person ever say they were happy w/ the handling after cranking those bars. If you then get some ride quality back, that should answer your question about the green keys.
Throw a 2" body lift on it...probably solve most of your clearance problems. There is a 3 page thread on body lifts here about 4 months back. Should have all the info you need.
http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/s...ight=body+lift