[accely]

Well.. I went back out and was going to mess with things again. Not sure what happened but the driver side controls are mostly working now.
WORKING: heated seats, windows (not passenger side), remote locks (driver and passenger dont lock though), memory settings for power seats. power mirror on driver side
NOT WORKING: passenger door controls, passenger power mirror, door light, driver door light

I *think* the only thing that happened was I was in the fuse box next to the driver side door and pushed on some of them to make sure they were secure... after that, that was when most of the driver door controls started working

/shrug