Good news all,
My entire passenger door is working again.
I decided to take off the panel and inspect it further.... I don't know if these steps will help anyone else but we all know it's worth a shot.
1. unplugged everything from the PDM
2. blew into the connectors
3. blew into the PDM where the connectors go
4. plugged in each connector (not sure if order matters). went from right to left, right side being the side with the 2 cables that goto the power door mirror.
5. when I plugged in the last connector the door light came on and i was able to lock the door and control the window again.
Not sure what really is the problem here but I'm just glad I got everything back to normal without spending any money!!