My family (venting my frustrations)

[BlueHUMMERH2]

Helpful words CP. Thanks.

The divorce took place in 1993, but they have been at it ever since. I have always tried to keep my distance. I just worry about my mom sometimes since she lives alone and has always suffered from depression. Being told she was the root cause of all her daughters problems, I just got more worried than usual.

My dad's been trying to get me involved in his businesses for years. Luckily, I never went into college trying to match what he was doing at the time, as those businesses are long gone...

[K9sH3]

Originally Posted by h2co-pilot

When you are young- and I forget how old you are but I think you are a little younger than I, you get dreams and ideas and thoughts seem to flow through your mind and the world seems endless- yet hopeless sometimes. You need to get focused on how you will make a living, make a plan and do it. Emerse yourself into working and doing it for yourself- take pride in it.

You seem to have a huge heart and that gets you into trouble sometimes- like so many of us. You need to step back and realize that you cannot change people. Stay away from negative people and negative thoughts. A positive mind can do wonders. Take care of you and be responsible for you. That means having the morality to tell yourself wat you need to do and refrain from steering clear of your path. Everyone else will find their way as well.

Ok if you listen to anyone here I would go with her...

Either she stays at a good hotels or watches alot of Dr. Phill


So print what she just said and read it when ever you have to..

[deserth3]

I feel for you.
Best advice I can give is be responsible for yourself.

As for working for your father. Ask yourself this. If for whatever reason the buisness goes under will he blame you? And if so is it worth the hassle? Frankly your father seems to be someone who no matter what happens in his life, if it's bad it's always someone elses fault.
And if I may be so bold your mother seems just the opposite.

we can only blame our issues on our parents for so long. You have a mind of your own; use it. And above all else be reponsible for you self.

Whatever you decide good luck.

[CO Hummer]

Originally Posted by h2co-pilot

I don't eat when I am stressed and sometimes get really really thin.

Obviously, times are care-free right now. Glad to hear it!

[CO Hummer]

Originally Posted by BlueHUMMERH2

.....<insert war and peace>.....

Hahahaha. I don't mean to laugh, but....... hahaahahahahahaaha!

Nothing makes me laugh more than yuppie "problems". You should sell this stuff to Hollywood! My wife grew up with 7 brothers and sisters in a one room ghetto apartment in NYC. Every single one of them made it out of there with no help, and none of them have ever whined about their "problems".

But again, I don't mean to laugh.




haahahaahaaaaahahahahahahahahahaha!

[Hmmm2]

Originally Posted by K9sH3

Ok if you listen to anyone here I would go with her...

Either she stays at a good hotels or watches alot of Dr. Phill


So print what she just said and read it when ever you have to..

X2

[h2co-pilot]

I will be in my office if anyone needs me.

Originally Posted by CO Hummer

Obviously, times are care-free right now. Glad to hear it!

Shut it monkey boy.

[KenP]

Originally Posted by CO Hummer

Nothing makes me laugh more than yuppie "problems". You should sell this stuff to Hollywood! My wife grew up with 7 brothers and sisters in a one room ghetto apartment in NYC. Every single one of them made it out of there with no help, and none of them have ever whined about their "problems".

Please see this thread:
http://www.elcovaforums.com/forums/s...ewpost&t=25057

[HummBebe]

Originally Posted by H2 Rocks

REALITY CHECK!

GET OFF THE CROSS! WE NEED THE WOOD

LMAO...I'll have to remember that one.

It's ok to vent. But, one person becoming seriously ill, is usally a sign the whole family is off kilter. Talk to a professional, if nothing else, just to check in and get confirmation that you are ok.