I am glad that everyone is of understanding.
I feel like these two folks were bad news and felt it too juicy a situation and necessary info to be put to the others.
(A wig and fake meetings, 4 months of BS. Come on.

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I was wronged in the beginning of it all, for no reason. So I had no reason to hide the info. I don't know you and don't take kindly to harsh words and I don't forget stuff like that, no reason to care or hide your stupidity.
Slinging words out in the open forum is one thing- going after someone in a pm unprovoked and questioning their parenthood and using rude language (from a man to a woman) is another. It was personal and uncalled for.
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Using a forum name like h2co-pilot is one thing- lying about your possesions, marital status, and serving up a plate of bull**** with almost every post is another.
So pm who you want, shade the truth- suck up to whoever you want and post wherever you want. I did my duty and feel no regrets. I accept your apology but still think you all are weird and creepy and would appreciate it if you stayed the f- away from me. That is all.