wife denies new truck purchase; need advice

[Dave92270]

OK, last night I told to my wife that I'm considering to buy (or maybe lease) an H2, new or preowned, I'm not decided yet; I want to keep my H3 as well, at least for now. She freaked out like never before and snapped back at me really bad that I don't need that etc... what is the next step when this happens? What arguments to use? She pisses out about $10k monthly in discretionary expenses :raar: yet won't allow a bit of fun for me? Need help. Need good arguments.

Thanks!!

[3Hummer]

it should be a new version of one of those bumper stickers "My wife said she would leave me if i got a new Hummer, Ill miss her"

[timgco]

Time for a new wife!!!!:fdance:

[Dave92270]

Time for a new wife!!!!:fdance:

right! :jump:

[BKLYNH2]

Buh-Bye:twak: :fdance:

Take it from one who knows, you will enjoy that truck much more! :jump:

[05h2sut]

Tell her you'll sell the H3, by the H2, then outrageously price the H3 on the for sale sign....


10K in monthly spending? I'd be looking for alimony from her....

[pdxhummerguy]

Been down that road. See What they will give you on trade in for her? lol

[SnakeH2]

First, I'd ask her to give back your dick...

[NewHummerGuy]

She pisses out about $10k monthly in discretionary expenses

Fuk that. If true, go buy an Alpha. And I dont mean H3.

[ZigsRig]

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[Dave92270]

you guys are great - YES, I figured that I shouldn't let it go that way; probably should get rid of wife if that's what it takes to get myself into the H2 cockpit :excited: I knew that I'm asking the right people....! Oh I like my H3, but H2 is, well, bigger better etc :) also...all the responses you posted are absolutely hilarious, I've been laughing now for well over an hour; good fun and I'm going to get the truck; screw the wife..she has been having too much fun lately, and I'm tired watching only...

[wpage]

Make sure you take her for a ride in it...

Have some red roses in the Hummer for her too:beerchug:

Maybe some champange on ice as well:beerchug:

[Dave92270]

Make sure you take her for a ride in it...

Have some red roses in the Hummer for her too:beerchug:

Maybe some champange on ice as well:beerchug:

yes, if she wouldn't like the ride, she's not worth keeping...
good thinking to sweeten it up with roses and champagne- it could help...:dancingbanana:

[05h2sut]

Make sure you take her for a ride in it...

Have some red roses in the Hummer for her too:beerchug:

Maybe some champange on ice as well:beerchug:


All that for a one-way trip?:jump:

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excellent!!! good list to keep around these days I guess...

[06-H3]

Give Drew Peterson a call? He's killed two or three already and has his sights on number 5, dude must be doing something right to still be pulling in young trim like that.

[Dave92270]

Give Drew Peterson a call? He's killed two or three already and has his sights on number 5, dude must be doing something right to still be pulling in young trim like that.

...wonder if those wifes questioned/objected his Hummer purchases.

[Ed G.]

If she spends that much why ask her?

[Lean Machine]

Go for it if you make enough money and that it doesn't cut into her spending. She shouldn't care. Also helps if you make more money than her.
Rationale doesn't work as well if she makes most of the household money and you are taking money out of her pocket.

[Dave92270]

Go for it if you make enough money and that it doesn't cut into her spending. She shouldn't care. Also helps if you make more money than her.
Rationale doesn't work as well if she makes most of the household money and you are taking money out of her pocket.

lean machine, excellent points, thanks!

[ssgharkness020147]

50158

[frenzy1]

:jump:

[HUMMERcustoms.com/TAZ]

Curious situation to be in? It was made clear when marriage was decided on that I would be polite and discuss with her my purchases but, it was agreed before marriage that reguardless of logic of her position it was from before the wedding day agreed that I would go ahead and buy what I wanted when I looked at the budget and it did not take anything away from family budget and needs. I was in no hurry to be married but, was not against it so the person most desirous to be wedded was in the corner to give up on pre-marriage rules set for term of said marriage. I think when put down on paper they call these prenups now.

TAZ

[richl]

Sir you are the alpha male. you are the boss. go out and buy the truck grow some appendage and tell her it is what it is ...

dose she wear a strap on and you are the submissive one . i hope not


http://i42.tinypic.com/eqb0g2.jpg

[timgco]

I also forgot to mention to check your Marriage Certificate. See if it has an experation date!!!! 10K a month? WTF?:raar:

[Dan Rather]

Just a little nudge...
50166

[Karsun]

Dude, she spends 10k a month and said you can't have a new truck? Seriously, if you have that much spending money I wouldn't have asked someone else. You can obviously afford it so go for it. :)

[DRTYFN]

Dude, she spends 10k a month and said you can't have a new truck? Seriously, if you have that much spending money I wouldn't have asked someone else. You can obviously afford it so go for it. :)
He needs to politely ask her for his nuts back. :jump:

[Karsun]

He needs to politely ask her for his nuts back. :jump:

That too!

[mikejr]

What the heck does she spend $10K a month on?

[Dave92270]

What the heck does she spend $10K a month on?

hmm, let see - loads of clothing, loads of unneeded household stuff, frequent lunches, breakfasts and dinners with friends (always picks tabs off course for everyone), travel with girlfriends (pays all), even flying-in girlfriend(s) when I'm out of town, other entertainment, checks to friends and their kids for every ****in occasion like birthdays etc (Christmas time is particularly painfull), personal care (hair, nails, massages and other beauty procedures every once a while), more... believe me guys, it adds up quickly...if it won't stop pretty soon we'll get broke in a few years...

[Karsun]

Doesn't The Real Housewives of Orange County give some kind of stipend to her for being on the show? :jump:

[Dave92270]

Doesn't The Real Housewives of Orange County give some kind of stipend to her for being on the show? :jump:

yes, one of her favorite shows...

[ssgharkness020147]

I dont know about the comp for the channel. What I do know is I'd plow tamra til next week.


Doesn't The Real Housewives of Orange County give some kind of stipend to her for being on the show? :jump:

[Karsun]

I think Gretchen is the prettiest.

[ssgharkness020147]

I only caught the show once. From my impressions Gretchen is not nearly scandalous enough for me.