Paint Problems

[Mikei]

LoStMaTt,
Regarding your finish, like you I have a black H2 - it is inherit that you will see swirl marks and scratches more than any other color. You can minimize this by rinsing wash mitt between panels, using a good quality carwash and using a good wax(such as Klasse). With black, it's always going to be a maintanence issue but there are really good swirl mark removers and waxes out there.
Do you have leather seats? If you do, you shouldn't be using Armorall. Armorall is for plastic, vinyl & rubber (that's why you're slipping in your seat). For leather care, you should be using a leather cleaner and conditioner like Lexol.
Mike